2 years after Mum

It’s been 2 years since I lost Ami. I struggled a lot and went through emotional turmoil until I started documenting my grief on a blog and it helped me to channelise my emotions I was not able to speak about. Most of the days I am happy, go getter, strong and someone who is…

You are never too old to learn

A very funny yet thoughtful message I received yesterday “Are you still studying?and why are you wasting your energy in studying so hard when you already have career?“ I found it funny because I remember as a kid when I had my first board examination in claSs 9th and I was always motivated to work…

The process of happiness

Enjoy the process towards happiness and the journey becomes automatically exciting. I love to keep things simple, easy to manage and yet enjoyable. Today myself and Zayaan baked a simple cake for my husband’s birthday. He picked a beautiful coffee mug on Amazon for his Baba and we ordered it. Luckily just before birthday it arrived…

Mom guilt

A very good advice I heard today is: If you feel like you’re handling each area imperfectly, you’re probably juggling all of them perfectly. I don’t subscribe to the idea that you can’t have it all.  We need not to be perfect because no matter how hard we try to be best at everything sometimes your…

I miss you MA

Oh Ma! It‘s an year since I lost you, last year this time I got the news you are no more! I am stronger than I thought I was; Watching someone like you who was strong become weak and bedridden, suffer and eventually drift away ate us internally every day. Last year, I spent two…

Down the memory lane

Today I was browsing through my old books and I got my hands on one of the book which I took from Karachi with me. I opened that old book, smelled dusky like an attic room of our house- Nostalgia hit me so hard and it took me few minutes to come back in reality. I…